Happy New Year! I hope all your hopes and dreams for 2017 have come to fruition and that you’ve turned your attention to making the most of 2018!
I believe in making resolutions; they give you the focus to complete certain tasks. Resolutions can be made any time of the year, and should be in some cases, but it’s traditional to make them for the fresh start of a new year and it’s all in good fun!
- Address my social anxiety.
- Buy a custom jacket for my wedding ring.
- Complete all of the Spanish lessons in Duolingo.
- Film video diaries for my future family.
- Landscape the front yard.
- Paint the Kitchen cupboards.
- Pay off my Navient loan.
- Play and complete eighteen video games.
- Play Pollyanna’s glad game every day.
- Reach my goal weight.
- Read and complete eighteen books.
- Research our family history.
- Research retirement investments.
- Sell 36 of my garlands.
- Start a family.
- Start a kitchen garden.
- Take three road trips.
- Watch the most popular movie (via imdb) of each year, from my birth year until now.
Here in the United States, Thanksgiving day is a national annual holiday celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November, marked by religious services and a traditional meal including a turkey or ham. Of course each family is different, some may not attend religious services and some may not eat turkey or ham, but that’s not the point. I’ve always felt the main focus is to be together with the people you love and eat a meal together, thankful for all you have.
After all the definition of the word Thanksgiving is the expression of gratitude.
This is a special day where we all express our love and gratitude for the special people, circumstances and objects of our lives. A lot of people, including myself, lose sight of how wonderful aspects of our life really are.
I’ve created a list (in no particular order) of the things I am thankful for in my life right now and I hope that I can remember, on more than just this day, what makes my life special.
I am thankful…
- That I am alive.
- That I am in good health.
- That I have shelter.
- That I have food and water.
- That I have a husband who loves me.
- That I have a family who loves me.
- That I have two lovable cats.
- That I have a job.
I am thankful for so much more, but I will stop there. Just remember that there is always something to be thankful for in your life, even if you have to bring it down to the basics.
Does anyone out there ever bring gifts for their host or hostess anymore?
I will admit I have been very neglectful of this when I attend gatherings at friends and families homes, but I think it’s time to turn over a new leaf, bring the classy back, and start showing our gratitude to those who go through the effort of hosting us for the day, evening or longer.
If you are feeling like you would like to get your host(ess) a gift there are a variety of gifts you can try, gifts like:
- Beverages (Beer, cider, tea, wine, etc.)
- Card or Board Games
- Flowers (Cut bouquets or potted plants)
- Gift Cards
- Hosting accessories (Decorations (decor), kitchenware etc.)
- Treats (Savory or Sweet)
Whatever you choose to give, you will be spreading warmth and cheer back to your host/hostess, who in turn will spread warmth and cheer to you and their other guests.
Welcome back Autumn! Every year I look forward to the Fall and the warmth it generates inside my home and soul. Where I live, September and October are still rather warm on some days, and turn wet and cold as the months progress toward Winter. I cannot get enough of the rain this time of year. The cold, wet weather begins to take over outside, driving us all inside to be together and warm. There’s nothing like cuddling up with people you love, reading a good book, watching a movie or playing a video game while the weather misbehaves outside.
I intend to fully enjoy myself this season and invite you to join me. I will be doing a lot of cooking, crafting, book reading and game playing; among other things. Follow along and try some of these activities for yourself, this is a time we should all enjoy!
I intend on:
- Decorating for Halloween.
- Watching Halloween mood movies.
- Assembling a Halloween costume.
- Hosting a Halloween dinner party.
- Carving pumpkins.
- Roasting pumpkin seeds.
- Making candy/caramel apples.
- Cooking a dish for Thanksgiving.
- Creating and sending Christmas cards.
- Creating and hanging Christmas ornaments.
- Decorating for Christmas.
- Baking Christmas cookies/cake.
- Watching Christmas mood movies/specials.
- Visiting local Christmas festivals.
- Visiting Christmas Disneyland.
- Hosting a Christmas dinner party.
- Baking Christmas Cookies.
There will be other activities I do, but these are the core basics I try to do every year.
It’s Independence Day here in the United States of America, and while I’ve never really been a person who is interested in politics, this year has really made me think about what being an American is and what independence means to me.
No worries, I am not going to shovel my deep thoughts on you, let’s keep it light! What I will say that I am thankful I have been given the right to live my life the way I want to live it due to others before me standing for what they believe in. I am also thankful for those who are doing what they can now to ensure that we still have that freedom. I hope you have the freedom celebrate this holiday in your own way.
It’s almost that special time of the year when we recognize the fathers in our lives for being there to love and support us through it all. Like our mothers, our fathers would be happy just to know that his child/children love him and grateful for everything he’s done, but whether you want to show your appreciation through action or give him a gift, sometimes its hard to choose.
Now I know you know your dad best, but just in case you’re stumped I’ve made a list of ideas to spark your imagination.
Go for a drive. There’s nothing like hitting the open road with your dad and sibling or siblings if you have them. It doesn’t have to be to somewhere you’ve never been, just a scenic stretch of road and maybe a bite to eat along the way.
Get crafty and make him a masterpiece: Play to your strengths and make him something that you’re good at making. It doesn’t matter what that may be, as long as you have your Dad in mind when you’re creating it.
Give him something he’s interested in. Think of his hobbies and get him something that compliments those hobbies. Get him a tool for that project he’s been really into, buy him that vintage fishing reel to round out his collection; everyone has something they love doing.
Work on a project together. Ask him if he’d like your help with something he’s been working on and pitch in when and where you can, or just keep him company while he works if he doesn’t need the help.
Make him a meal or meals with his favorite foods. Fire up a grill and make some side dishes, or you make the side dishes and let him grill if that’s what he likes. If cooking isn’t your thing you could always buy him a meal or meals instead, no judgement!
It’s hard to believe Cameron and I have been married now for 5 years! I am incredibly blessed to have such a wonderful man in my life and I look forward to each and every moment we spend together.
Before we were married, and for 4 years into our marriage, I had never heard of the list of traditional anniversary gifts by year and now that I’ve discovered it, I can’t wait to get all kinds of creative!*
Our year is Wood, visit my Instagram to see what we gifted one another!
*After searching through several sources, I found that some of the gifts on the list varied depending on country and timeframe. I mostly stuck to the traditional list from the United States, but inserted a few of the United Kingdom gifts where appropriate.